We were in a relationship for about 4 months in our more than 1 year friendship. We were best friend of each other. When I had that feeling of our friendship is moving to a relationship, I asked her about that. And that was right. We were in love. On the same day I told her that this is not gonna work as we are of same age. I alwas sure she will get married atleast before 3 years of my marriage. But she told that we love each other as many days as possible. I was not able to refuse her. But all of a sudden after 4 months of our beautiful relationship her parents started to arrange her marriage. She cried a lot over phone to me. I was helpless. I was able to support her mentally and literally I helped her to move on and get married to one there parents found for her. It was really painful for me. I promised her that I will stay as her best friend as always. But the pain went worst for me. She got married and I was too down. Still I'm not able to sleep well some days. She is still in touch with me. She is also feeling that I'm in pain. One day she asked me that why I'm not talking to her. I don't know what to do. I cannot talk to her. I want to move on. Please help me. I want to keep my promise. I want to be the best friend of her

Hi ecstatichawk6 . Thankyou for reaching out. I understand your situation. Try to tell her how you feel about the whole situation.And also ask yourself is you staying in touch with her is healthy for you or not. If it is causing as hinderance for you from moving on then you may think of avoiding contact with her for a while.

Can I tell her how exactly I feel? If I say would I make her also feels so bad? Will it help if I stay away from her? Even now If I face some problems or something big happens in my life I tell her first before any other friends. Sometimes I feel that doesn't bother her anymore. But I know she doesn't feel like that since she used to tell .e to share everything with her. I'm little confused here. Your advices will be helpful for sure.

Moving on can be tough. But that is the first step towards healing.try to split sharing information to different friends. This will reduce the burden and urge to tell it to you ex girlfriend. If staying in touch with her is making you difficult to move on then avoiding her contact could be best option for now.

It might be tough to avoid her. But I will try my best. Thanks.