unable to cope with a break up

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Relationship Issues

Hi, I was dating this guy for 2 years, from 9th grade to 11th grade. It was a very loving relationship in the beginning but then it got really messy and we broke practically once every month. He has a few family issues which he doesn't know how to deal with and projects his anger on to me. We broke up recently for the final time and very soon he found another girl. I wanted his good and that he is good hands, so i was by his side as a friend to see if the girl was nice. But now that they are all happy, it is breaking me because i shoved all my feelings in the bg and never dealt with them. I cry every time I see them together. How do I get him?

Giggless

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Giggless
How do I get over him*?
T_UAE
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Well see high school love is really beautiful and every feeling you experience is really beautiful as well. What you should do is enjoy these teenage years of your life and wait for the right one. Also, when the right one will come everything else will fall into place.
Sahitya MG
Hi giggles thankyou for reaching out. You mentioned you wanted his good. Tell your self that every time. Being jelous is okay. It's a feeling. Don't let that feeling over power you. But it would be great if you try to distract your mind with something you love,work on a new hobby,find your interest. Make the most of teens. Also I would invite you to analyse what are the goods of you not being in relationship with him?
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Nemo26
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Hey, it's sorta eerie how similar our stories are! Me & my ex dated from 9th-12th end (3.5yrs) and then he broke up with me & started dating somebody else within 2 days legit. It broke me horribly & i had a bunch of exams to deal with. Initially his gf kept texting me to "know things abt him" which really pissed me off & he kept asking me to still be his friend. I tried that for 6mths almost but it really made me miserable. Tbh, it's very normal to hurt but dont let it affect your studies & mental health ( im literally on this platform coz of this) & most importantly-FOLLOW NO CONTACT RULE !! I blocked them both for a while & asked mutual friends to not tell me abt him at all. If you're still in the same school as him, try your best to not face him- just take a different route or something. Also burning /getting rid of gifts from them etc , helps too Just know something much more beautiful is yet to come & dont lose hope okay?