unable to deal with onesided feelings

Question

i’m deeply in love with my best friend  he sees me as his sister and even though i told him how i feel i’m still his sister  it’s so hard having to hide my feelings to protect our friendship and seeing him be happy with others is so hard all i want is for him to be happy  he’s the only reason i’m still alive but e doesn’t know it  everyone says he is toxic because he plays with my feelings we flirt a lot but then he switches and becomes cold and rude  ik i shouldn’t get attached but i can’t help but love him and i don’t know what to do

rkaka · Answer

you are definitely in a difficult spot but I think you should try to outgrow this feeling. when he has clearly mentioned that he is not interested. There is no pointing watering dead plant.

vengefulLlama6 · Answer

yea i get that but he had feelings before and every time i stay moving in he pulls me back and flirts

vengefulLlama6 · Answer

plus i’m just holding on to hope that he might still want me

Samairah · Answer

Well you should be with someone who loves you and respects you the way you do. It shouldn’t be one sided and it’s the case with every relationship in this world.

shomekawsamvi · Answer

Just start treating him like what he want like talk to him like brother and just act casually..

i am an immature person so don't judge me i am mental patient

Frustrating

help me please

how do I change for the better?