Also to be precise I used to like him as a child when I was a child because we used to play together but after that I have grown up and even he has and in the middle we didn't talk to each other for many years but as he lives in my campus we used to just meet in a few get togethers during occasions that's it and obviously when I was a child He used to like me that I can feel and I can understand but after that he has obviously moved on even I have moved on I have had a boyfriend in the middle he had a girlfriend I'm not sure he has a girlfriend right now or not but I think he has so whatever it is but I can't understand why am I suddenly thinking about him is it him or is it suddenly because I just want some love from a guy or I want to meet a guy and I don't know I am confused so please help I hope you understand what I am saying so yeah

hello panicky, First of all, just relax. You are thinking too much. These kind of things happen with everyone. Its not something unique to you. The more you are going to force yourself in stopping these thoughts the more it will come to you. One way to is to distract yourself in something else. You have to indulge your mind in thinking something else so that your mind will get distracted and slowly his thoughts will subside.

ok. thanks a lot.