Unable to get over someone

Stress

Relationship Issues

PLEASE HELP ME PLEASE!!!!!!! I don't know what to do. I still can't get over a girl who rejected me only for the reason that she wanted to focus on studies. She didn't had a boyfriend and still she doesn't have one. She used to give me mixed signals. Some friends of mine also told me that she liked me . But she never told me , I thought maybe she doesn't like me that much so she was not telling me. I liked her from the first time I saw her . I still remember everything in detail when I saw her. Everytime I used to meet her I used to feel so overwhelmed and happy. But I couldn't say it to her , I wanted to but I couldn't. I don't know what to do now. This was 2 years ago. Even now I can't get over the idea of us getting a chance again. And it's eating me from the inside. Now I couldn't love anyone , I have rejected some girls in last few years. It's like I can't get over her. I don't blame her for this but I just want to make peace with myself. If someone is reading this please help me . I don't feel that I can love anymore. It's like I'm dead from the inside.

Raj333

10 Answers

Samairah

Well if she is still single then stop wasting time and go tell her your feelings. Your blessed that everything can still be fixed

Well the thing is I just don't know that does she still like me or not . It's been 2 years maybe she forgot me , maybe she doesn't wanna speak to me. I don't know. I'm just afraid. Sometimes I just feel that maybe it's one sided . Can you tell me how should I approach now .

adoringCamel6

Listen Raj, She has a already noticed you and may be she has a little feeling about you but the reality is she wants more better then you, she is waiting a guy which is better then you or may be she already find her crush but same as you she can't speak with him.

Okay so what should I do . I did everything I could think of to forget her. But I can't . I don't know what to do now please tell

kindHyena6

I think you should reapproach her with a casual hi hello and tell her how you feel.

So should I just talk with her again and within few days tell her ?

No no need to talk with her it increase your love and curiosity but believe me wait and be patience she will talk with you can do only one thing be close to her like hello, Hii with her friends make your self little bit famous little bit suave and Vitty, you will be surprised I'm sure.

excitedTomatoe7

Alright, first of all, you're definitely gonna love again! Trust me, you're just in that phase where you're stuck on one girl. Once you're over her, you'll meet someone else and fall in love! Secondly, I'd suggest you to talk to her one last time. Give it one last try and see what she says. But after this, you need to stay strong and decisive. If her answer is no, don't pursue her any further. Don't think about her or talk to her or about her. Do your own thing and even though it may take plenty of time to move on, one day you'll find yourself in a better place. And I say this with personal experience. I understand how you feel and I'm certain that you'll get over this :)

Thanks excitedtomatoe7 and all others . It really helped me a lot . These things are so hard to tell someone , via this anonymity I'm able to find a little help. I will not start talking to her right away, I will work on myself and be a beeter version , will just talk with a hi hello and after few days will tell her how I feel one last time. Thanks again guys for boosting my moral

Happy to help you and always here to listen and help, feel free 😊

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