We are in love 13 years I supported her for all situations mentally and physically but not economically that's the reason she hates me. She said u didn't spend a money for me u didn't care for me u didn't support me so I m leaving u like,
kannaa
I consider her future for her future I motivate her for her studies and job now she is central government employee she had one secure place. But I m in my situation I ve two brothers my earnings all are spend for their studies and family only . I know I made a big mistake I didn't spend a money for her but I gave all my true love to her. Now she's going away she blocked me on her WhatsApp and everything on her mobile. But she came online spend time in WhatsApp till night 2 but she didn't even send one msg to me. In these 13 years I laughed with her and take care on her sorrows everything around me she's surrounding everywhere but today I m alone feeling alone
f_yal
1
I am sorry to hear this.
But let me tell from what I understood i feel it’s good that you actually stepped out of this relationship because if someone can’t value 13 years pf relationship and keeping money over love is very materialistic.
Do you really want to be with someone like this?
exactingCur4
2
Self love is most important thing. Before searching for others love to complete ur life.jst remove this though of otherS love and acceptance is needed for ur own survive of live, the only thing for world is running is happyness and if you can't find it with ur present choices then start making better ones.
ramveersgh
2
Bro, really sorry to hear this..
Just think that being online till 2AM means she has someone else now ....
And Bro...Don't feel that u did wrong by not spending money on her... Emotions and care are more more important then spending money...
Now she has job, does she ever spend money on u considering ur financial condition..
Better..
Focus on ur career and your future and move on from her....
I may sound negative but I know it by experience..
kannaa
I m willing to move on. But her voice her smile all her activities stuck on my head I need to throw away these all but I can't able to do that when I woke up her thoughts she stand on my head till sleep she didn't go away. I need solution to forget her pls anybody help
ramveersgh
4
U r right bro.... I understand how r u feeling and how distrub those memories...
Just remember that time is a biggest healer..... Time heal everything...
I can suggest what I did when I was in same situation as u r in...
1. Accept that u want to move.... Accept those good memories and say urself loudly that it was a good time and u want to move on.
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2. Start some meditation and breathing exercises to control ur emotions and thoughts..
ramveersgh
3
It may sound bit stupid but honestly listen some monk lecture on YouTube on control emotions which u follow or believe......
And last... Find someone whome u can share ur feelings when u r badly distrub with old memories.... And that person should be matured to understand u...
Hope u will be good soon.
Good Luck Bro...
sincereDunbird1
1
I'm also not able to handle breakup..i just want to get over of his thoughts..i' m tired of thinking...i want my life back...cant leave like this...i'M truly tired
kannaa
Now a day's sincere love is not valuable know. It all depends on status money. I m feeling betrayed. It may sound stupid I m sending msg every minute to her WhatsApp by imagining that she talking with how stupid I am
f_yal
Don’t actually do this. Don’t push yourself in her life.
Trh to accept it and distract yourself.