Hey!
It will take time, because it is a sudden reaction.
However you can try to calm yourself and chose to skip from that situation if it becomes uncontrollable for you.
Try meditating.
Try to evaluate the situation and its consequences if reacted in an angry way.
Try being assertive and just make your point.
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