Well there is no point going to that man because he will not respect you now.
You don’t have to push yourself in someone’s life.
Whereas what you can do is work on yourself and your anger issues.
So that it doesn’t impact your other relationships.
Don't worry..every relationship teaches us something...now shift your focus from what you cant control to what you can control. You can't control whether he takes you back or not but you can work on your anger issues..so do that..once you achieve that calm state of mind you will attract love of your life..and if it is meant to be..he will notice the change in your behavior and come back...but either case you need to start working on yourself first..So start your mission. All the best😊
My bf broke up with me cause he started to talking with his ex gf i want him madly i just want his attention please help i m depressed 😔😭
I understand..its really difficult situation. But you know what you played your role in his life and that's unique so be pround of your part. Now lets talk about him. He broke up with you because he went to his ex..we don't know why he felt like going to his ex back but it has definitely nothing to do with you so relax. Let him go.. Don't stop him..and you said you want his attention..let me tell you girl..this js thing which guys find unattractive..when a girl doesn't need anybody's attension to feel good..guys get attracted easily..so handle this thing maturely..dont run for his attention..give that attention to yourself.. Take care of yourself...guys dress for yourself..order food for yourself just LOVE yourself. The moment you will feel that you dont need anybody's attention to feel good..everybody including your exbf will get trracted to you
But i cant live without him
My love for him is soo truu thay. i want him badly
Yes you dont have to live without him..give your love to him from distance...i am not sure if you believe in energies but energies do talk..even when you guys are not connected to each other you can still remain connnected through energies.. That's a power of meditation. i have successfully done it..it really really works...you do one thing...take a notebook and pen...everyday you write a letter to your ex.. say everything you would say to him if you were together..like you can share how was your day... What did you eat today.. Similarly you can ask him..how was his day and what he did today..and imagine what would his response be!
Do this activity everyday..you are not posting that letter everywhere but still your ex will get your messages through the energies you will put in writing those letters.
You will surely start feeling good because connection will extablished between u 2 through energies.
ALL THE BEST 😊
But he is gonna get married with another girl
Did he tell you?
Marriage is fixed?
Yes he did , register marriage i am not able to say anything just said stay happy but i have lost my happiness and depressed to core , unable to die
They are gonna get married in this november on my bday itseems
When he is not concerned about your marriage why are you?
Because i love him
Okay.. Then just write your best wishes to him in the letter and tell him that you want good life for him and dont feel guilty for anything because you are not the same person he rejected..he had rejected the girl who had some anger issues may be temporary but today's you is more calm and composed girl who can wish him good life even when at this moment you yourself someone to help you with the emotions..thats a sign of strong and mature woman...dont worry and dont think about it😊
Honestlt i am going through same situation..my ex ia dating someone else..i was someone who literally never got angry...one fine day i couldn't control my feelings and got angry...abd after that fight he broke up with me..now tell me..what should i do? If people want to stay they will stay even after seeing your worst and if they want to leave they will leave at silly fights too . there is nothing we can do but accept what comes to us and learn the lessions through it
But anger is something an innate character i dont angry for silly reason and never used cuz words against him but now he is treating me like slave
If u msg me i. Will blk if u talk about me i will block u this is wat happeneing i really want to hug him tight and say u r my world which is a dream now
@Thrish... I know we don't know each other much but I will suggest you do this only for 2 weeks. And I believe for 2 weeks you can manage to do it forcefully even your mood is not good to do, I guarantee you that it may not solve everything but at least you will feel better. -
1. Send ur last message to him as I described earlier. It will give you internal satisfaction that you tried a lot to fix this but if another person does not want that to fix then that's fine.
2. Do the below wim holf method early morning before your breakfast.
3. Just after WimHolf, Do meditation, I know it will not be easy in starting but trust me it will help to control your mind and emotion in 2 weeks.
I will say please do it for 2 weeks only with a proper schedule and discipline without any miss. It will solve the problem completely but you will feel happy.
I know..this is exact situation i am going through..he removed me from social media..i dont even get any updates from him..but i am just trying to distract my mind..thats the only thing we can do right now i think..if things are meant to happen they will..we have done everything we could...i also begged him..said sorry to him but no luck..he said he doesnt want to look back now..when had had a fight he was the one who started ignoring my messaging when i was trying to discuss something and thats how i got angry...but anyway..i said for my part 100 times but left anyway..and i dont think i have anything left to do to save this relationship..effort should be from both the sides
Its okay to have feelings dear
But don't let your day just pass by stuffs related to that person
You are more than a person who was or is in a relationship.. remember that
Also find someone and make him jealous and show that he's better fake it until u make it
Its my fate atleast when i die he mi8 understand
No body remember after die.... And if remember after u die then what's benifit to u.. so don't be looser... Think wisely...
Just an example... How many persons now remember about Sushant Singh Rajput... Everone Is forgetting that he was murdered.. so be wise.. and don't think about these stupid ideas...
This is temporary phase dear..After few yrs ypu will look back laugh at yourself and will say how strong i am right and i have a long way...so look towards that day
Hey , lovely
Just know that you can't love a person without loving yourself
What you search in a relationship , first be that person and the right one will find you
I know it sounds so quotable and all but its a fact..
Love is important but first self love dear...hope you don't search for happiness ..and be the happiness and calm person that you wish ..... Many will come and go ..so dont think he is the only one..be open to options honey...
Because when something disatrous comes the tall and straight trees are cut first
So be tedha (slanted) once in a while...
Thanks a lot guys i will try to change myself ,but love would retain for him and his family