Unable to process the break up

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I was in a relationship for 5 years when I was in college. Once I started working and got into my first company, one guy approached me.. even after trying too hard not to get connected to him I got attached to him and brokeup with my current boyfriend. But the issue is he is 10 years older than me and his family is pushing for marriage.. and I cannot marry him due to many differences.. age, religion and my family is not satisfied with the boy. Now he is getting married to someone else. I am not able to overcome his thoughts and thinking the time we spend together and I just cry thinking about him more and more.. thinking he will be with someone else. Please suggest how to stay strong and overcome the situation.

pluckyCamel7

9 Answers
chicOwl0
4
I have been through this once but u have to trust u deserve sm1 who would do anything for u love u the way u did i think its worth hanging on for sm1 who would do anything for u its hard i knkw but its not the end remember that
Beautifulmind786
4
I would recommend you to accept it and try to cherish the good memories you guys have had. It will be difficult but it’s the reality. Find support from your friends and family. Try to get yourself engaged in activities that will keep you occupied.
Sudeshna
1
You can try to involve yourself in some activities. Keep your mind busy. It may help you.
pluckyCamel7
I try to involve in other things but whatever I do I keep thinking about the time spend with him. His memories pull me back.
chicOwl0
2
This will pass back a new day also awaits
Sudeshna
4
It's not easy dear... The pain of separation can be really cruel. .. I just need to establish some new habits without him. Just do it as you are taking some medicine for your mental health. Hope, you will be fine very soon.
pluckyCamel7
1
Thank you so much everyone 💗
excitedTomatoe7
2
I would suggest talking to friends, keep yourself engaged in work. He is with someone else now. Even though it's hard, it's time for you to think about your future now. And if you've been stalking him on social media then don't! It won't help you in anyway. It might take time, but you'll get through this :)
pluckyCamel7
2
Okay will definitely follow this. Hope to come out of this soon. Thanks 😊

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