understanding issues in relationship

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Relationship Issues

Sir almost 2 month se problem chl rha h bf k sth baat hi ni krte. 45 days to complete block hr jgh se koi contact ni or ab may ke starting se kisii trh unblock kia to 5-7 min only call ya fir call na hua to msg me 2-3 msg reply aana bs. Or hmesa Ignore krna online aakr v baat na krna or bhana bnana. Idhr 1 week se fr SE complete baat ni ho rhi h

Priyanka

2 Answers
Z_Zidane
Hello Priyanka, Agar aap apni izzat nahi karoge toh koi our raise karega. Agar aapka bf aapko ignore kar raha hai toh aapko bhi uste barre main scorna kam karna chahiye. Aapki baaton se aisa lagta hai ki uskko aapki zarurat mahsoos nahi hoti. Agar aapko lagta hai ki appse galti hui hai and uski wajah se woh aapse baat nahi kar raha hai tab toh aap usko manaiye lekin agar aisa nahi hai toh aapko bhi apne baare main sochna chahiye and usko bhulne ki koshish karni chahiye.
hansa_shaunik
It seems like your partner is not invested in you, or is not willing to have open communication on what your issues are. Being treated like this by a partner is very painful. It must really be upsetting you. This must hurt. We all want to be treated well and feel heard in our relationships. If your partner is not giving you that, consider asking why. If however he continues to close all channels of communication, it may help to think about how you can take care of your own self.