thank you Farshy I just need to get it out speak to someone cause I'm really hurting deep inside.
farshy756
you can share Whatever is bothering you.
unhappyalone
thank you, I want to end my marriage but have no means of getting a job, i am from South Africa and things are hard here my husband is an American
farshy756
have you told about this to your parents?
unhappyalone
both my parents passed away a couple of years ago. the only person left in my family is my younger brother whom I don't want to burden
farshy756
sorry to hear about your parents
unhappyalone
thank you Farshy. and thank you for listening just getting it out there has already made it feel a bit lighter.
farshy756
anytime 😊@unhappyalone
unhappyalone
how are you? if there's anything you want to talk about I'm here for you too Farshy
farshy756
why do think you are burdening your brother? I mean you could stay with him for a couple years, till then you can do a couple of part time jobs to support your kids and save for a house in future.
farshy756
I'm good, @unhappyalone, thank you for asking.
unhappyalone
you're welcome Farshy I'm glad you're doing good 🙏 my brother isn't doing too well financially as he already takes care of his wife's gran and her sister, he's always been there to help but 4 kids and myself would be way too much for him at this stage. he is always there to listen but I'm worried if I talk to him ill put my husband down and if my marriage does get better for some reason {hopefully for baby} I don't want bad vibes between them.
farshy756
that's understandable, let's just hope for the best, my best wishes to you for the future.
farshy756
wishing you a easy delivery and a healthy baby.
unhappyalone
thank you so much Farshy, may you only have good luck and happiness follow you, truly has meant alot to me that you have taken the time to listen to me vent. the world needs more people like you. stay safe and well
farshy756
anytime 😊@unhappyalone and you too stay safe.
unhappyalone
thank you 💐
farshy756
welcome 🤗
boastfulshads7
Hey @unhappyalone... just wishing that man gets better with you after this baby... but please don't rely on him after everything gets back normal (i.e. your baby and aftermath) please find a job for yourself