I've been married for just 2 years but it already feels like we've lost all spark. We dated for a prior to our wedding and it was the best year of my life but after we got married my husband stopped putting in all effort. All we do is work, eat, sleep, and discuss expenses. Our sex life has gone down the drain as well. It scares me that this is what the rest of our life together is going to look like and I've made the wrong choice.