unhealthy relationship with brother

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Hi My brother, says I'm Chutiya. Yeah. Whenever he talks and wants to explain something it's mostly in an extremely rude way and he is almost always loud. That's how he is to my parents as well. He doesn't abuse them but the way he talks is extremely disrespectful. I'm his younger sister and he is my real brother. I do point out and tell him not talk to my parents when he does and I'm present then- and this has happened so much that my parents just listen to what he has to say and stay silent. I too stay silent now whenever he talks this way. I dont know what to do. We live in the same house. I just don't feel like listening to what he has to say. Because he keeps justifying and keeps giving reasons- my sleep is getting disturbed and I am just getting really annoyed of his actions. What do I do?

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ferventFlamingo1
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Well I'm like this at my house ! I know it's bad bit i do this , I shout to my parents because to hide my feelings I'm going through lot I can't share those things with parents so whenever they ask about that I just justify and shout , I always regret ,I'm living with a mask ! I shout em and later feel sorry for em ! May be your brother going through lot, if you really wanna help me ask him what's wrong with him!
killerhealth
Have you tried talking about it in front of your parents, tell them how it makes you feel and you want t o be respected.
traumatized
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My uncle is an addict and he screams alot whenever he is drunk. So what we do is go to another room and close the door or put in headphones and listen to music to ignore him and avoid his screams. There alot of reasons your brother is so angry all the time he might be going through something terrible so you could help him talk to him or simply do any small gesture that shows you care! Make him feel loved, respected, and wanted and he will automatically control his anger issues.

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