My brother donallbthings for himself and his wife and portray to society that he is doing only for my parents and family. This guy is f**ng selfish and mu father is not working, and o don't know how he is enjoying without working and earning money. But These things irritate me so much. I feel like if my father were making money like other father's I would have been more confident, funny, and exciting about life. But now my brother is spending money for us, He wants to have control over my life. He will see like , when he is not there I can not do anything. I hate my father for giving my life to my f**ng brother and his wife with money.. Don't know what to do but whenever I am alone I think these and my blood pressure becomes high.. any suggestions