Sons and mothers have a strong bond. However, he should understand that now he is a husband and has responsibilities towards you as well. How’s your relationship with him?

Hey! Thanks for reaching out. I can understand, how all of these arguments must be affecting your space as well as the aura at home. Have you tried talking about it with your husband? How is your bond with him? Have you noticed any significant change in him?

I often talk with him it would end up in physical assault

it really makes me weak n often affects my duty as a wife n mother

This isn’t right, I am sure you know that. Have you tried seeking help from your family members? Do you have any idea why are they behaving in this way?

I was raped at age 13 n was scared 2 spik up even thou I had witnesses. I was always emotional n think suicide was best, I turned 2 rlationships that never last 4ever,until the one I had with my husband which end up, me being pregnant 2 our elderst daughter, my inlaws never believed that the child was his, he made me pregnant again this time ,the same day and mnth we stayed 2gthe with our 1st child, I later gave birth on the same day n mnth as my first child. In my 4th pregnancy he made me abort the child ,I was 5mnths at the time n my third child was 10mnths old. I nearly died cause it was done at home by him. then I had the twins, they were 9mnths old when twin 1 had a very severe illness n she passed away. the day she passed away, I was shocked when the ICU staff told that the 2nd twin just arrived in emergency.I just broke down and felt week. my father inlaw didnt let my husband to even attend the funeral.I was stressed out n devestated. my husband was out at sea. then hatred between my side of the family n his side.

This is soo devastating. You have been through a lot. I can only imagine the trauma you must be going through. Is your family in your support? Let’s connect over a session and talk about this detail. It’s important for you.

I never talk about the rape issue except a very close relative of mine , just lately 2 my husband n now u . I always try to keep a very low profile of myself even to my parents .

is it costly

at times I just wish to get out of my country and work as a seasonal worker overseas, so I can surport my five children ages 12,13,9,6 n 4 Im always terrified he would hurt us very badly or kill us, he often threaten to kill us. his been jailed 4 child abuse, n a dvro for physically asaultin me. Still he does it, his twice told him that I was cheating on him, I tried told him it was a lie but he did not trust me.

No it’s not costly. Let’s connect on call to discuss things.