also told me to leave my house.....he behave me like a stranger
lonewolf07
3
So what was this issue about
mee
his mother
mee
he wants to make her laugh take care of her ever single moment.....becoz of her m not able to join my job not able to do anything.....she is quite smarter .....made problem between me nd my husband
lonewolf07
2
so your husband and in laws did something that made you upset. Did you talked to your husband that this issue is making u feel depressed
mee
yes when I want to talk to him about this he never understand always took side of his fmly... starting fighting wid me
mee
I really miss myself
mee
he will never understand....to make happy ar satisfied his fmily he always made me cry
lonewolf07
3
It is okay. I think its better if you visit a professional for counseling.
mee
😢😢I don't have money for this
lonewolf07
1
Hmm I am sorry for your situation. But first you have take a stand speak to your husband even if he starts a fight tell him you want to go for job. Tell him you will look after him and mother even if you went for a job. When you start to stand in your own feet then only your problems will be solved. If you are qualified apply for some job.
mee
but he didn't allow me bcz his mother didn't co-operate for anything.....
lonewolf07
3
that's what I told to take a stand its your life not your in law's life.
mee
I love my hubby...that's my weakness
lonewolf07
3
Loving someone is not a weakness. If your husband love you he will understand you. Do your in law have any health issues
mee
yes his mother have bp nd diabetes....
lonewolf07
2
so your problem is your hubby wants you to take care of his mother because she is having bp and diabetes otherwise perfectly healthy adults by destroying your career and your personal life
mee
m ready for everything...but I need cooperation not retrictions
lonewolf07
2
I feel for you. What is your education
mee
m.com, m.ed
lonewolf07
2
so you have masters degree with teaching qualifications and still not brave enough to speak for yourself. Nobody can help you until you speak for yourself. If you take a strong stand sometimes in your life. I think its time for you take a stand
mee
m confused m I ryt or wrong
lonewolf07
2
If my words felt like overstepping I'm really sorry.
lonewolf07
2
If you wanna go for a job whats wrong it
mee
m frustrated from being a puppet
lonewolf07
1
Hey it's okay. If you respect yourself then only others will respect you. If you want to feel respect to yourself you should be independent. If you are financially independent then you will get the respect you need
