eVen my sister abuses me in front of my parents she have calles me basterd slut and what not and when I Go to my parents and tell them about this what they say is its all right. I this is happening for more that 6 months And now I cannot tolerate it any more please help me please

I am so sorry to hear this, Why did it start in the first place dear? What changed everything?

How was your relationship with them earlier?

If I run my memories back when ever I did any thing wrong or something like that either she used to give me a cold shoulder or she use to throw me out in the sun and i was kind of shouting like please mom open the door i will not repeat it again she used to shut me out for an hour or so. I and Later on when i had a younger sister this this become worse whenever my sister had a quarrel with me she use to punish me as above. And whenever I used to ask them that why is she doong this to me she use to reply that she is still too native and is weak. So i didn't paied much attention to it. Later on i was indulged in my studies so i rarely had time to talk to them

Then when I was in class 8 th I asked my friend to copy a song for me as I really liked its lyrics so i took her notebook to my home . then after completing my daily task i decide to sing that song alone my sister told aboit tht note book to my mom and then the worst happened she tore off my notebook abused me and warned me that this must not happen again

When I was in class 9 we bought our first touch screen phone and i was not allowded to touch whenever I asked he to let me use it so that i can ask for the work from my friends she used to ignor it and when my friend used to have a talk she use to read all the msgs and when I protested against it there was a huge quarrel between us. I she not even allowed me to use cell phone even to compelet my school projects

and three yrs from now on i was really very ill I was so ill that even to drink a glass of water i had to ask for someones help . so during those days I was suffering from pain and i told her that mom please help me my hand hurts what she said to me was that for whom you are playing this drama

and now recently she body shamed me

And one day she was going some where with dad and she had an accident because of my Father I had nothing to do with that accident but when I asked about the accident she didnt told me any thing but when I was having a small fight with my sister she came to me and started to shout that my accident was yoir fault . She always blames me for the things that i have never done

please help me maam

I am so sorry to hear all of this. I am sure you must be feeling terrible about it. Have you tried talking about this with your family. Or are you close to anyone in the family?

tried talking to them about this bit in turn their answers are like we are parents and we can do any thing there are parents who abuses their child much more than you think

And this morning my father even told me to leave the house If i continue arguing about this topic. I

He told me that you can leave this home I dont care whether you live or not now you are even 18 and at a legal age of earing so if i want i can dismiss you from my family.

of this things going on I am not able to concentrate on my work I am not able to study properly It's everything is just keep on Haunting me this is really you really frustrating

Nobody listens to my problem whenever I ask my mum to listen to my problems she is like you are always like that but when my sister go to her and tell her about a useless stuff like about your friends and think like that she always support her then I I even try to tell my father about all this thing he is to blame me e that I might be lying to him about all these things and they have all been supporting me for all these here and I am being an grateful to them for doing so many things I even try for asking help but what they said when they came to know about this was that you are trying to defame us you are trying to tell people are family problem if you are not satisfied by their behaviour you could tell them whenever I tell them about the things that are Haunting me that I am worried about the always make fun of me

once I was abused by a teacher and I told that thing to my mum she made fun of me that even if he had kissed you you won't have said anything to him my sister even make fun of him that you are a type of girl goes after every man and when I told them not to say this kind of things anymore there like it's just a kind of job please don't take it to your heart but this joke had been cracked on me for more than three years and when I told them that it is more than enough they gain told my father that I am being rude to them

Once while riding scooty E I had an accident because of which I hurt my right hand and everybody so that accident accept my family so the people there told my parents that it was not my fault but the second parties Hold and record my parents and everything what happened but on reaching of my mother start believing that it was all my fault that I had my accident it was my fault because of which that goes to anus when boys who are underaged got arrested And same story they started making fun of me from that time onwards and because of that I have not ride Scooty for more than 3 years

mAam please help I am pleading mam it has been more than years that I have been facing all this I don't have anybody to tell my problems to. whenever I study late at night there always saying that you study late at night and because of which you are not able to concentrate and if I study during the daytime there like because of you we are not able to enjoy your Entertainment television and mobile and I am like us if you are not allowed me to study at night while study during the daytime and there like no we want to see at TV because of which I stop studying during the day time and when I told that you are always like wanted to see the TV during the day so I want study during that time I will be shifting my study time during evening and 6 o'clock but that time to there like no we want to see TV at around 7 or 8 so this is really frustrating and I know myself that I won't be able to study in the morning

m i will be very much thankful to you if you get help me mum please I am ready begging for the help right now I can think of nothing except Self harm and something like that

maam it really breaks My Heart When I see that how same parents treat the two different child differently they encourage the first while discouraged the second please really begging for your help

I can only imagine the pain you must have been going through from so many years. Only thing that I can suggest you is try to just live for yourself. Don’t pay attention to negative comments. Engage in limited conversation with them. You have tried all the other ways of making situations better but nothing has worked.. i hope this helps.

een if i ignore them they just try to find a way to humilate me for example yesterday when I was sitting alone door closed my father created a havoc that if you will close the doors i will smash your face

tHey just enjoy seeing me cry

I understand. It will be difficult but try ignore it as much as possible and be strong.