Unhealthy relationship with parents

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Hello everyone I am disturbed emotionally and mentally Although I have good friends and a healthy relationship with my partner but sometimes I feel way too depressed I can't even share my thought to anyone .. My parents think I am selfish but the thing is I don't want to talk to them because even though I do they'll be mad at me and would not listen to me because they found our about my past relationship once and do not trust me anymore . I am 21 yrs old I am not allowed to take my own decisions go out with my friends for a normal walk . It's so bad having this negative energy in my home I have no one to speak with ..I am at that stage of my life I feel so pathetic , vulnerable and bad for my self I literally don't knw what to do .

survivor6

5 Answers
R_anjum
I can understand it must be creating a very negative environment for you. Have you tried communicating politely how you feel and how things can be changed at home.
gloomyThrushe6
3
Girl fight for your freedom...wat is the worst tat can happen ...they will ground u...sounds like you're already at home anyway..no1 will fight your fight for u..u have to step up n be the change u wanna see
ramveersgh
4
As u said that u have good friends.... Then try to talk to them to make you happy... Give some time to ur parents and try to earn their trust.... It will take some time and slowely ur parents will lose the restriction... But u need to take them in confidence that u r matured now and will not do any relationship mistake..
luccisan
3
i have i same problem like u, and from what i think, i will move out, whether they tried to stop me or not, i will just move out, i'm me and i don't need my parents to decide my life
shanaya06
2
I truly relate to you, I hope we could end this toxicity