Try to talk to him assertively what he is expecting and what are your expectations, if needed involve your elders too.
How long are you going to bear with this behaviour.
He is blaming me that im responsible for his anger.. If i still talk about my opinion he raise his voice.. Throw his mble.. Broke whatever is in his hand.. We are in long distance relationship... So im worried what if he intentionally hit car and make accident and all..