Wants to be in relationship

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I really want a boyfriend. I miss having someone to cuddle, kiss and hug. and I want more than a friend or family member. I miss having that love. its a different love from platonic relationships. I want love in everyway I can get it. it's one of the only things that make me happy. I've tried doing other hinge but it just doesn't work. but I can't seem to gets boyfriend. they just either use me, run away or reject me. I've tried everything. King on dating apps, asking friends, asking crushses. I don't know what to do... Can anyone help or give me some advice?

mellowDoughnut9

5 Answers
innocentOtter9
2
I think you shouldn’t behave like this. You should have some patience. And focus on yourself. Try to have perspective and control over yourself. Then only look out for relationship, maybe you being desperate about it and ask every second person for it is taking away what you want.
mellowDoughnut9
I don't ask every single person, I've asked only two friends. and by asking crushes I meant by asking if they liked me or not. and I can't focus on myself. I've tried I just get no where. and I've tried multiple times. I can't motivate myself. I need someone to do it for me. it's always been like that. and friends and family don't work.
kapil
3
I fell you. I also felt the same thing that I just need a person to push me everyday, but I think instead finding someone like this, I feel we should support ourselves overcome this. :)
mellowDoughnut9
no offense but I don't work for me. like to me y'all are just people online I'll never meet and will forget about me. like ya it's good for when you need to vent and have no one but you guys just can't push me. maybe it can work for you though.
kapil
4
I agree, I also used to talk to some friend and feel good but after speaking to them again I am back to myself and I was not able to explain this to anyone who would understand how I feel and what exactly I needed to overcome from this. I am also still not out of it completely but I am trying and struggling slowly to overcome.

Anyone know any apps where I can vent privately

blade2992

I am not fit for anyone

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