Till when we’re you like this?
Ws there any change in your life style back then?
offendedSeagull8
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Yeah I met this guy I feel in love and he was really toxic. And I started to become this upset lonely person since we broke up. He wanted to be friends and I agreed. It was a mistake
rkaka
Then you have the answer there. Cut ties and move to your old regime :). Trust me
offendedSeagull8
I am trying. stopping myself from messaging him. I am use to sharing everything with him.
Zoya Ahmad
Hey! Thanks for reaching out.i can understand, it must be really difficult for you.
It will take time but you will have to accept it.
What do you do throughout the day?
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offendedSeagull8
I try to do activities to distract myself. I love drawing and experimenting with my make up. I try to read and reconnect with people whom I stopped talking to because he use to be in call all day.
Zoya Ahmad
That’s great! You are doing great, this will ensure your growth definitely.
It will be difficult but you will definitely outgrow this feeling.
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offendedSeagull8
Its his birthday on 30 i don't know if i should wish him or not...I want to stick to my rule of staying away but i don't know what to do about the birthday
Zoya Ahmad
Texting him will only bring back all the memories and you will again come back to square one.
It’s a wise decision to stick to your commitment of staying away.
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offendedSeagull8
I just lost my uncle and I posted about it he saw but didn't even ask if I was okay. so i messaged and vented everything i was feeling and told him all the manuplalation and gaslighting he did. like always he try to shut me down . i cursed and blocked him after that.....I feel much better.
Zoya Ahmad
Okay!
But refrain from doing this again. Please stop checking on him.
Try to make peace with the fact that you deserve better.
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Zoya Ahmad
This must have actually given you a temporary relief, but it’s not the way you heal from the situation.
Refrain from venting to him again.
He didn’t ask because he is no more a part of your life.
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offendedSeagull8
I am sorry i was done being shut down I am the eldest in the family to a fully blind father. I never had attention or affection. I am always told to adjust. People bullied me school for my father's disability and my skin. I was molested as a child....today I felt as if I have the oppurtunity to say whatever I want
Zoya Ahmad
I am sorry you had to go through this.
What about others in your family?
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offendedSeagull8
They don't know nothing about it. I grew up in a typical brown household talking about mental health is saying I am crazy
Zoya Ahmad
That’s so hurtful.
How are things at other places now?
I hope you now take a stand for yourself.
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offendedSeagull8
I try to but I don't have anyone to talk thats why i got so depended on that guy...I have so much to say
Zoya Ahmad
I can understand, well you can share here now and what about friends? Don’t you have any close friend?
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offendedSeagull8
I don't have anyone close because he made me cut ties with them.
apurva12
just block him from everywhere and try not to un block and re-start your new life without him
talk to people, maje good friends
offendedSeagull8
I am trying that. I started doing things I love
Zoya Ahmad
That’s good progress.
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