Wants to talk

Question

I just wanna talk it out with someone

kapil · Answer

we all here to listen

Samairah · Answer

Hey I am here tell me

serenesoul · Answer

Then I welcome you. We are here only for that.

change123 · Answer

I don't know what I'm doing , I wanna complete my work but I don't know i just can't focus can't concentrate then I get all stressed about it

serenesoul · Answer

Is there only work that u are stressed about. Any specific reason for not getting concentrated on work?

change123 · Answer

let me start it from the beginning , i just feel like I can't fall in love , i fall in love madly for like 4 5 months after then i just idk I don't feel anything , i mean i ofc care for the significant other but i just don't feel the love and i just don't wanna hurt them , then it's a continuous cycle of me bring not at all concentrated in my work and i don't get anything done and then i stess about my work

serenesoul · Answer

See, u are thinking that it will hurt them, but if they know that u are telling the truth they will move on easily, but if they will caught u are lying about ur feelings, that will hurt them even more than u can imagine. Also once u will talk nd tell them nd make them realise how sorry u are feeling, it will help them as well as u will get off of the burden and u will be able to focus

serenesoul · Answer

so it's time to talk I think

change123 · Answer

I agree  I need courage up and tell them , ayeee btw thankuuu

supressedgal · Answer

we are all here

change123 · Answer

yeah I think so too

change123 · Answer

omg people here are good thanku guys

Frustrating

help me please

how do I change for the better?