wasting time in imagination

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General Query

While listening to music I often imagine some romantic events with a boy,who is my crush since we were 10yrs old ,which never gonna happen. And I love that fake reality so so much I don't want to escape from that fairy land. Because I started loving that fake scenario than real .But he isn't in love with me.Even he started ignoring me. By this I'm wasting a lot of my time in listening music and creating duplicate world .My studies are being hampered. Anybody can help? Please,

smoothyKatty

6 Answers
Samairah
4
Well all of us have romantic fantasy stories so I don’t blame you for it and it’s good you have a escape from this world. Btw why can’t you make it reality since you like him?
smoothyKatty
2
Thank you for replying I can't make it real because, he is of Lower caste. I can make a move, but I think when we get together, he may not get that much respect in my family. So I'm afraid of putting him in trouble
kindHyena6
1
It's too soon to decide this, I think you can keep a hope.
Samairah
2
Just give things time and see. It may improve 😊
importedLapwing8
4
If you understand it is not possible and if you are not sure of this relationship i think you should try to move on and be happy. You can try some concentration exercises to improve your studies. It would be best to keep yourself busy. I hope things will get better for you in time
moongdull
3
Meet new people and explore new places. Don't get broke so chase money. It gives you everything.