what I should do?

Question

I am in relationship since 11 years, he loves me a lot, but he is of another caste, my parents never accepted him, I tried my whole best to convince them but they said no, them they found another guy and forced me to get marry, but I denied, they never listen to me and forcefully they married me to that guy. I tried my best to accept him at least for my parents happiness, one day I came to know that the guy who I have married is having the problem of impotency, but he is innocent too. .my boyfriend still calls me and even he suggest me how to be happy in every situation, but he don't know about this problem, I don't know what I actually have to do....

MDP · Answer

Hi friend. I would say, if your husband is innocent and you love him then don't worry about impotency. It can be solved or there is other ways. But the question is are you happy with him?

mereorange2 · Answer

trying to be happy, bcz even we both didn't talked before marriage, trying to become comfortable, but sometimes situation hurts

happyguy12 · Answer

I have a few questions,if u r comfortable can i ask?

mereorange2 · Answer

sure u can ask me

happyguy12 · Answer

1. are you happy with him? 2. are you still in love with ur ex? If yes, don't you think you should stop contacting him? 3. are you sure u r not taking his impotency as an excuse?

happyguy12 · Answer

i dont mean to offend you by any of the questions, it's ok if u choose to ignore them.

mereorange2 · Answer

I am trying to be happy with him and my ex is a bestfriend of mine more than a boyfriend, bcz we both are childhood friends(since we born)  we came to relationship since 11 years, how can I stop contacting him suddenly

happyguy12 · Answer

its ok if he is just a bestf to you at this point without any kind of love interest. Also as you are trying your best to be happy with your husband, it's great. you will slowly adjust to it. ik how hard it must be for you. for the importency thing, there are many medical options available which you can consider

mereorange2 · Answer

it is bit difficult for me to get close with my husband bcz of age difference between us about 9 years, his thoughts and feelings are totally different from mine... I am convincing myself to accept his thoughts in every situation

i am an immature person so don't judge me i am mental patient

Frustrating

help me please

how do I change for the better?