what's my punishment??

Question

i loved a girl, i took her care, she said she's alive cuz of me nd cuz of my support when she was in depression, we liked eachother nd then she dumped me for a guy, soonly a few months later when i moved on from depression she came again in my life, i forgave her and got along, we were in relationship and she broke up, now all my emotions are nothing to her and all she do it hurting me i always cut myself and cry with no one around since i left many friends to tc of her and now she calls me stupid, she abuse me and say she doesn't care, she deleted my all pics so i am away from her life but i am crazy who can't move on, what's my punishment for loving her?

DeadTree · Answer

these are smallest lines to tell all this mess, it took almost 2 years for all this-

NannoYuri · Answer

You need to accept the reality even though it's heartbreaking. She just doesn't care. Don't give people so much power over you that they use you .. Move towards different goals of your life ..  develope a hobby , join gym or dance class or any class .. Start meeting new people... You will get over her

NannoYuri · Answer

and that's not a punishment... that's how life is

DeadTree · Answer

oh well i have a lots of hobbies like i write poems, songs and stories, i study music and compose my songs too and i also could ignore my loneliness during exams and all exams were good enough, but now i am all left alone with her memories and pics and videos that i can't delete

DeadTree · Answer

isn't life too harsh? (it surely is)

ferventClam7 · Answer

yes, it's not a punishment, it just u are too soft hearted!! don't worry dude! just be focus on ur career or hobbies..

DeadTree · Answer

that's what I'm try to focus of bro, thanks for ur time

humorousMagpie7 · Answer

Well she was a user and opportunist who took from u when she needed but didnt give anything in return . Dont worry karma will teach her a harsh lesson when she wont be valued in her life . U learnt the lesson to set boundaries with such people and not overextend your love and efforts . What u gave will return to u 10 folds . Love will find new love and betrayal will find justice . Dont hurt yourself for such dumb people who r not worthy . U r special and u deserve a loving relationship .

DeadTree · Answer

i hope my life gets better nd i just wanted her to realise how it hurts, she also accuse me for a lot of stupid things but i hope the fate will do justice, i hope karma hits me if i do something wrong nd so with her :)

DeadTree · Answer

lol i just texted her nd i went my emotions nd recalled all our memories, guess what she said sorry, idk what to do except for crying

Frustrating

help me please

how do I change for the better?