what you are choosing?

between 2 jobs...in the company in which I am currently working is increasing package ( not exactly with the new company one) and offers life time job security even if we don't do something extraordinary or great or even if we are not given any project while new company is offering higher package... although I have to start learning new things there so this is a little fear if I should stay in current or join new for new experience and challenges.....my gut feeling is literally dead and not giving any hint

why don't you go for new challenges and experiences. May be you can go for new job?

i want to... but only fear that in today's time when everyone roots and do hard work to find such a job which pays well with lifetime job security... i have that job and does leaving the security is right decision or not...this is the confusion

but you can always find a job anywhere you want...you must be having such experience and ability till now or then ,that people will be willing to hire you. What people think about jobs is not important. Do what you think is right for you

that's the issue you know.... due to being in comfort zone for so many years, I guess my gut feeling of taking any decision is dead now, so I am ok with what I am currently doing in current company as it doesn't give any stress to me while the other company will have the technology which I have little knowledge and I will have to learn...so due to no gut feeling, I am scared that will I be able to do justice or the current one is ok for me

i am in very much stress as not able to decide which way to go

see stressing is not required because either way you will be okay. Also it seems like you would right now just like to continue your current job as it is comfortable for you...but on the other hand you can increase your value by learning new things and facing challenges in your new job. It's totally fine whatever you choose because you are still having a job to survive

you are correct... it's just that I don't want to regret later that I left tcs for which so many people root to be part of .. basically in this year starting....I was not even thinking to switch as I was ok.. but then colleagues started looking for switch ...so one of my colleague who is also best friend now got the switch...so I am confused whether I have thought about looking for switch because that colleague left or was that colleague a motivation to let me grow indirectly