whenever a fight

Question

whenever anything happens between me and my bf i always run to my friends and tell them ny problems. idk why i am like this i ask for their advice and one of my friebds she is like he is toxic leave him. my mom doesnt like my that frnd. even i dont want to tell my frnds everythjbg but sometimes i just run when i get stressesd and panoc. waht should i do?

lazyeland2 · Answer

heya do you want to talk

wolfalpha · Answer

If you didn't stop running to your friends, then trust me you will become the toxic one and then you'll blame yourself everyday and it's gonna be so hard that you won't be able to run to your friends....talk to your partner about the problems, not to your friends

harrypotter09 · Answer

we had a really bad fight few days back..i told my frnds from now on i will try to no tell thm anything rather i will journal. i feel very different now we had a fight and we came to breakup but now its fine we talked out. but i feel lost losy

wolfalpha · Answer

Listen, first of all stop telling everything to your friends, secondly start journaling like you said and thirdly be the mature one and think logically like 'Is it worth fighting or can it be resolved the other way round or can we come to solution in this matter'?

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