Try talking to him. If you don't even know his best friend then it is a red signal. Tell him you are not comfortable with this secret relationship.
grumpyts
1
I told him,he is giving lame excuses that my parents will know,etc etc .
grumpyts
1
everytime I say him to make me public,he says that he will let everyone know at the right time.
Rello
3
The real question is what are his intentions. Done he actually show love and appreciate for you?
grumpyts
1
yes sometimes he shows efforts and sometimes he don't
Rello
3
Sometime if you love someone so much but it doesn’t seem right, you gotta let them go. It’s for the best.
grumpyts
1
what if people call me cheater? because there is no genuine reason.
Rello
2
You can’t be a cheater if you don’t get with another person. I think what’s best for you is to work on yourself. Don’t worry about the people around you because in the long run you will probably never see them again in your life. They are not in control of your life. YOU ARE!!
grumpyts
1
still, what is issue with making me public? or introducing me to his friends
Rello
1
Honestly he is either not ready to tell people, he is embarrassed of you, he has another person in his life, or he just doesn’t feel the same way. There could be many reasons. But it’s not good to stress over these things. If he doesn’t want to show you off then he is not the one. And one question. How old is the guy?
grumpyts
1
he is 25
Rello
3
He is way too old to be acting like that. He needs to grow up and show you love and appreciation or it’s time to move on. You gotta have him sit down and really talk to him. Get the truth out.
grumpyts
1
It has been thousand of Times.wheneva I say him or ask him about all these,he simply says that I don't want to make it public that's all.
Rello
3
Move on sweetie. Focus on your life. If he doesn’t want to show you off and appreciate you then he doesn’t deserve you.
grumpyts
1
I am really trying hard to move on😔
Rello
2
Don’t think of it as moving on, think of it as bettering yourself. You are worth more than what he can give you.
grumpyts
1
thanks for motivating me❤️❤️ I am really feeling very good now❤️❤️
