because their are a lot of options available and we need consider a lot of things before making a choice.
thanks for reaching out
may be ur confused
coz today's world is more competitive
illusion of too many options
can u share more where ru struck?
is there any confusion?
1) fomo of missing out. 2) too many options very less clarity. 3) lack of guidance/mentorship.4) competitive world - people are rather going for options with higher placements rather than working on what they actually want to do. 5) they don't want to regret in future. 6) there's financial, societal and families +psychological influence while one makes a decision.
Hi all...I see a lot of people are struggling to make a choice and sometimes this happens to me too, I felt it was a relevant topic these days and I wanted to discuss this topic here, that's why I made this post.
I have a question, which is better in your opinion- consulting a professional or solving issue by themselves?
@umm @recovering @farshy @skylar @prideful please suggest solutions too
@farshy should try to solve all our problems by ourselves and only if we can't, seek professional help
depends on ur issue! @farshy
I think you should consider what you're interest are and then check what options are available related to your interest, but it is not workable for people who don't have any idea of their interest and I have meet of a lot of these people.
thanks @skylar and @deepthinker for your answer.
what u said is for very ideal condition... sometimes ur interests may not match to ur requirement or strength along with the resources u've.
for me I will just go sit alone and I will think what are the good and bad will happen if I make a choice , then i will think what do really like, and then i will come to some conclusions it will be lil easy for me to make a choice
@farshy what's your answer
that you should consider your interest and go for options related to it, but as @skylar said you also need to check where you stand and what resources you have.
I think this is the major issue going on as@deep_thinker mentioned and i have noticed that people with anxiety are having a very tough time choosing the r8 things as in many cases they tend to think from emotions than to analyse the situation and think practically...
so @pridefulchowder will you go for a choice which you like but thier is a risk?
@farshy What would we do if our circumstances not suitable to choose according to our interests?
my answer would be analyse the situation whether the situation needs practical thinking or it needs to involve your emotional thinking and sum up all the resources and all the options you have separate those options with revelent ones and then again sum them up (the remaining once) which holds your intrest Or which you think will benifit u go for it
@deep thinker if u cant choose from your intrest then choose what is been presented to u and then make it ur intrest
it would be boring at start but once u start ull learn new things and grow in that field
then you have to wait for the right time which will never come 😂, you can only try your best to make the circumstances favourable for you if you are really sure about your choice, if you think you can go for something else, go for it. you can always try in future.
and how would u make that to ur interest?
@pride what about in the case of buying an electronic product, by thinking about it alone can help you make a good decision?
@deep thinker anything else?
I'm not talking about my problem 😊 just a general query and thanks for your concern 🤝
when it comes to an electronic products :1) consider ur requirement. 2) check it's power and voltage which should be able to fullfill ur requirement 3) invest accordingly.... don't fall into trap of fancy features which u r never going to use,.. or listen to ur neighbors aunties or salesmen.
right... same que. here !
@skylar If such a situation comes to you, how will you make a choice? (not abt electronic product)
ain't I at same situation?
@deep_thinker for buying a product i use to ask others so we can define what is the best product than we think alone
@blissful what's your confusion?
@pride what about life choices
@farshy what about career choices?
@umm what about emotional choices?
for life only one thing i will think will that choice is crct and good for me, and my surrounding, and If I am 💯 im sure about that choice only , i will take that
career plays a really important role in a person's life, so before selecting a career, they should see what are the pro's and con's, what are the career options available related to your interests, where you stand and what resources you have.
@deep thinker will u go to sleep earlier?
and can you give what that career expects you to give, can you maintain the work and home balance.
@pride nope maybe bfr 1.00
@pride before choosing how its possible?
try to go to bed earlier @deep thinker it may affect ur health
@farshy @pride can i ask one more thing?
@deep i don't understand the question can u ask lil briefly
not all choices are going to be the correct choice in life... it's inevitable... it's really easy to say... think abt passion, interest, pros and cons... etc but in reality these all are overlapped with something (if u r a critic person then u'll relate) . what makes this not so right choice to hurt and regret less is satisfaction and contentment -"that even if it wasn't my call , at least I gave my full potential from my side".
@deep thinker emotional choices are your feelings and sometimes in life you need to think emotionally eg ur love life and in some cases emotional thinking also require practical thinking eg :u love sm1 and that person is toxic and u can't let them go these are your emotional thinking and taking a decision nt to get effected by this and walk away is practical thinking which tends to break ur heart fr shorter time but helps in longer time
@pride before choosing how you know that choice is correct and good?
that's call gut feeling @deep thinker it will direct you to choose the r8 thing
@pride I sleep seven to eight hours every day
n nt all choices u make will be correct don't be scared to make a choice if it goes wrong ull learn if it goes r8 ull improve
@all thanks for the support 😊😊 🤝
@deep thinker if the choice is depend upon products or some career means we know about ourselves somewhat the good , bad i mentioned is something u may feel very easy and something u may feel when you do that you will be really happy and bad means something that won't work whatever u try and something may hurt as soo these are some examples of differentiating what we need. (if the choice is depend on some human or person we can't judge them , in thoose case u can talk and merge with that person while u talk to them if it feels u happy don't miss the person,, if ur becoming sad always when you talk to them then plzzzz come out of that person, if u felt bored with that person too , come out from them coz in starting stage itself if u fixed it means there will be no problem. )
@deep ohh then that is good 💞have a sweet and calm sleep every day ❤️💓
good night@deepthinker @skylar@pridefulchowder@umm
@ pride 😊👍
good night sweet dreams 💓💞🫂@farshy756
sleep well everyone 🥱💤
@good night farshy
meeting's over I guess... good night everyone. on second note - I hope everyone goes to sleep instead of scrolling phones.. lol
haha good night Skylar
I wish those who are stuck in life because they cannot make the right choices, may their difficulties be resolved quickly and be able to make a good choice soon 🤝 good night everyone 🔥