....I was raped and that thing still triggers me everytime ...my parents aren't understanding me ....please help me i feel lonely ..😭😭😭😭😭😭

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excitedTomatoe7 · Answer

Oh my god. Are you alright? When did this happen? you need to take appropriate action. Please do not be afraid. You're not lonely..I stand with you. Consider me as your sister. Please talk to your parents. If they do not understand, lodge a complaint immediately. Do you identify the monster? I'm so sorry for what are going through, but do not be afraid to speak up.

drearyTeal3 · Answer

@excitedTomatoe7 my parents ask me to keep my mouth shut ...😭😭😭

excitedTomatoe7 · Answer

That is weird. What does your heart say? what do you want to do?

excitedTomatoe7 · Answer

Remember one thing, today you are a victim. You have a chance of bringing out the truth. If you don't, he might attempt it on someone else. But you can prevent that too. Please don't be scared

drearyTeal3 · Answer

@ExcitedTomato I just want someone to whom i can share my whole story and cry on their shoulder and hug them ....😭❤

ferventClam7 · Answer

yes! don't worry, u are not alone!! we are here for u! don't take any danger option! try to talk to ur parents!!! do u have any siblings??! or whom u trust most!!..

ferventClam7 · Answer

um.. how old are you??

drearyTeal3 · Answer

actually I don't have anyone to whom i can talk about this ...  I am alone

drearyTeal3 · Answer

I am 18

ferventClam7 · Answer

don't worry, u are not alone! I understand ur pain! please I know u can fight back!!

drearyTeal3 · Answer

excitedtomato are you here ?

drearyTeal3 · Answer

ferventclam...are you a girl or boy ??

ferventClam7 · Answer

I am a girl

thrilledfalcon2 · Answer

you do not need to be feel alone we all are here for you talk with you parents share them what you feel and don't let the monster go file a complaint against him

ferventClam7 · Answer

do u know the person who did that thing to u? please be comfortable then answer

drearyTeal3 · Answer

fervent clam can i share my whole story to you ??,😭😭😭

thrilledfalcon2 · Answer

you can share anything if you want to

excitedTomatoe7 · Answer

I'm here for you

excitedTomatoe7 · Answer

You can share it with me. Consider me as your sister. Don't be afraid dear

drearyTeal3 · Answer

excitedtomato can i share my whole story?? 😭😭

ferventClam7 · Answer

of course!! u don't need to scare

excitedTomatoe7 · Answer

Sure, go ahead. I'm listening to you

ferventClam7 · Answer

yess

thrilledfalcon2 · Answer

don't be scare of anyone sister

excitedTomatoe7 · Answer

I'll guide you through everything dear. I believe you are strong. I'm listening, please share the entire incident

excitedTomatoe7 · Answer

We all are here for you in your support

drearyTeal3 · Answer

actually the thing started when I was 4 years old my mama used to rape me even in the night he used to come to me and raped me for several hours .....can you imagine what as a 4 year old girl I suffered...this thing continued for many months and I was tortured by him ..he would ask me not to share this to my parents. 😭😭😭😭😭 I used to cry ..even now I remember everything thing I have nightmares and flashbacks...😭but I am not able to talk about this to anyone.

thrilledfalcon2 · Answer

share with us sister don't let it in your mind

excitedTomatoe7 · Answer

Ok, does this still continue?

drearyTeal3 · Answer

actually I was raped 3 times by 3 different people of my family at 3 different ages

ferventClam7 · Answer

did he still came to ur house?? that bastard!!!!

drearyTeal3 · Answer

no , now I am safe but everytime it triggered me

ferventClam7 · Answer

omg!!!! do u have any good friends?!!

excitedTomatoe7 · Answer

Do your parents atleast believe you?

drearyTeal3 · Answer

yes , he comes to my house 😞

excitedTomatoe7 · Answer

Omg this is horrible! What have your parents been doing the whole time?

ferventClam7 · Answer

I understand dear... u are 18..try to find a good job..

drearyTeal3 · Answer

my parents don't believe me ....they Don't give   a shit importance to what I want to say .

ferventClam7 · Answer

@excitedtomatoe agree! how can they do that!! just find a good and comfortable job and shift far away from them!

drearyTeal3 · Answer

2nd it was happened when I was 7 years old I was raped by my uncle

ferventClam7 · Answer

dearyteal13.. they must be ignore u! but u are still PURE and WORTH IT!! remember it

excitedTomatoe7 · Answer

I hope you are safe from all of the monsters now. But you need to speak out the truth. They are no less than devils. You need to bring out their real faces. That seems to be the only way to overcome the traumatic past. You are very young. You have a bright future ahead. You should lodge complaints against them without being afraid of anyone.

drearyTeal3 · Answer

and 3rd when I was around 9 years old I was again raped by my relative many times ....I used to feel like dead from inside 😭😭😭😭😭

excitedTomatoe7 · Answer

You don't need your parents' help for this. Even though we're all strangers here, we stand with you sister. Teach those bastards a lesson

thrilledfalcon2 · Answer

yes teach those devils a lesson

thrilledfalcon2 · Answer

guys what you think should we from a group and gain justice for this young girl

thrilledfalcon2 · Answer

drearyTeal3 where are you form

ferventClam7 · Answer

yes, they are not even ur parents I guess ! so sorry if it's hurt u! but they don't deserve anything

drearyTeal3 · Answer

even after these shits happened to me. l worked hard in my studies I got 91 in my 10th boards I was a scholar of my SCHOOL and now my 12 th result is about to come

thrilledfalcon2 · Answer

where are you form sister

drearyTeal3 · Answer

I am from delhi

ferventClam7 · Answer

that's good!! u can do it! find a good job , earn money, shift to comfortable place... but stand out for urself!! go to police! do case against them!

drearyTeal3 · Answer

I can't file a complaint....I am afraid of everything. 😞😭😭😭

thrilledfalcon2 · Answer

you can do it don't let the monster go

excitedTomatoe7 · Answer

@thrilledfalcon- I agree with you. We should stand with her throughout the entire process and her parents are not in support of her

thrilledfalcon2 · Answer

you don't need to be afraid guys should we form a group

ferventClam7 · Answer

don't be afraid!! they can't do anything!

thrilledfalcon2 · Answer

on which platform we should form a group

excitedTomatoe7 · Answer

dearyteal- don't be afraid. We are here for you. The only way to overcome this is to take an action.

drearyTeal3 · Answer

I can't do anything my mother used to beat me like hell when I was a kid

drearyTeal3 · Answer

they don't even celebrate my birthday.....😭😭😭😭 I am very unhappy with my life

thrilledfalcon2 · Answer

dreary teal do you use any social media platform

drearyTeal3 · Answer

and one more thing I wanted to say can i say??

ferventClam7 · Answer

I understand.. u are living like in a hell! but if u fight back! u can make it, just try once, don't be afraid! it's ur life they can't treat u like that!

drearyTeal3 · Answer

thrilledfalcon..yes sometimes I use Instagram

ferventClam7 · Answer

sure u can share anything!

thrilledfalcon2 · Answer

guys what you say should we form a group on instagram

drearyTeal3 · Answer

where is excitedtomato?

excitedTomatoe7 · Answer

Don't be afraid. You need to lodge a complaint against all of them. Do you have friend whom you can take along?

excitedTomatoe7 · Answer

I'm here

ferventClam7 · Answer

thrilledfalcon2.. sorry i guess I don't use social apps..

ferventClam7 · Answer

guys*

excitedTomatoe7 · Answer

Yes, you can share anything and everything without hesitation

ferventClam7 · Answer

but I am always with u, pray for u!! u will get a far better life!

drearyTeal3 · Answer

you know I saw some weird pictures of nude girls in my father's phone .being sent by someone on WhatsApp .??,  since then I think why those pictures are there in his phone !

thrilledfalcon2 · Answer

drearyTeal3 can you share your insta I'd I will talk with my friend and they will help you too

excitedTomatoe7 · Answer

Oh, that's weird. Did you read the chats as well? Don't jump to conclusions. They may be pics sent in a group as well. Did you read the chats?

drearyTeal3 · Answer

excitedtomato..after this incident happened to me I am just alone i am not even able to talk to people about this ... and I don't have any good friend !!😞😭

drearyTeal3 · Answer

it was a girl who had sent those pics and there was no chats only location was sent on WhatsApp....what should i understand from this ?

thrilledfalcon2 · Answer

drearyTeal3 consider me as your friend

ferventClam7 · Answer

drearyteal3.. um affairs?..

drearyTeal3 · Answer

thrilledfalcon I will share Instagram id

ferventClam7 · Answer

sorry just this word came to my mind!..

drearyTeal3 · Answer

fervent clam  I don't understand what's going on?

excitedTomatoe7 · Answer

Hmm...matter seems complicated. But there's nothing much you can do though. How long ago was this? Do you still find similar chats?

ferventClam7 · Answer

I mean is ur father has a affair with someone!? how is ur parents relationship? means do they fight...??

excitedTomatoe7 · Answer

If he is meeting up anybody, then obviously he is cheating on your mother and you seem to be the sole witness. But let us not jump to conclusions yet. Have you found anything else recently? You should have saved the no. of the girl for further details and told her not to contact your father

thrilledfalcon2 · Answer

excitedTomatoe7 what you say should we form a group on instagram

excitedTomatoe7 · Answer

@thrilledfalcon- Sure, but first let's ask everybody if they're ok with it. Let us firstly ask drearyteal if she is ok with us forming a group. She needs to decide how she wants to proceed. Does she want to lodge a complaint or not? Because she must definitely take action and collectively we stand by her throughout the entire process

thrilledfalcon2 · Answer

drearyTeal3 no worries we all are here for you can  you plz share your insta id

thrilledfalcon2 · Answer

drearyTeal3 are you ok with that

excitedTomatoe7 · Answer

Looks like she is offline at the moment

drearyTeal3 · Answer

yes u can form a group I am okay with it .....and thank you all ..I am literally crying alone in my room

thrilledfalcon2 · Answer

ok share you insta I'd I will share mine

excitedTomatoe7 · Answer

Please don't cry. Finally you have opened up on this platform. We are all hellbent on bringing you the justice you have long awaited.

drearyTeal3 · Answer

excitedtomato I find those pics again few days ago with location

thrilledfalcon2 · Answer

you are ok with sharing your or will I share mine in which way you are comfortable

drearyTeal3 · Answer

ritika54892 this is my Instagram id ....

drearyTeal3 · Answer

thrilledfalcon u can share with me ...please share

thrilledfalcon2 · Answer

see I request to follow you I'd that you

thrilledfalcon2 · Answer

excitedTomatoe7 can you share your insta id

drearyTeal3 · Answer

who followed right now on insta please tell me

excitedTomatoe7 · Answer

@drearyteal- Something seems to be fishy. Was it the same girl or different? You can take the no. to extract details

thrilledfalcon2 · Answer

me

drearyTeal3 · Answer

thrilledfalcon  what is your name on insta please dm me a hi

thrilledfalcon2 · Answer

excitedTomatoe7 I am not able to find your take mine and create a group shriyanshu2502

drearyTeal3 · Answer

excitedtomato see I followed you

drearyTeal3 · Answer

excitedtomato is it you

excitedTomatoe7 · Answer

Drearyteal- I have texted you

thrilledfalcon2 · Answer

I dm you hi is that not you

thrilledfalcon2 · Answer

excitedTomatoe7 you find her or not

excitedTomatoe7 · Answer

Guys, we have formed a group on Insta to guide @drearyteal through the process of getting justice and bringing out the real faces of the culprits. If anyone wants to be a part, kindly drop in your insta IDs here. Thanks

skylar · Answer

u guys do realize that it's a real serious issue, with serious consequences, don't u? you need to have a lawyer's view on this before taking any step.

excitedTomatoe7 · Answer

@skylar- Do we need a lawyer's approval to offer support and guidance to a victim? I don't think so. Secondly, my mother is an advocate. If need arises, legal advice shall be given

skylar · Answer

well that's great then, first and foremost thing -taking legal advice is not a need here, it's a must , if u are looking for justice. so consult ur mother or anyone for that matter.

excitedTomatoe7 · Answer

As of now, drearyteal only wants someone to talk to and share her feelings with. Hence, we have created a group. If she wishes to take action, legal aid shall be provided to her

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Frustrating

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