is it okay to trust someone who are doing things without thinking how those things will affect you?

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T · Answer

if something bothers u  u need to speak to that person cause if u expect that other would just think without u telling them...then that is not gonna happen.....so if something bothers u about something u need to speak to that person so the other one knows what they doing is hurting u

ECCEDENTESIAST · Answer

@T what if still doesn't care even after sharing still continue to do things

T · Answer

then that's wrong....if the other knows that something hurts u and they still do it.....then maybe u need to be stricter with urself and prioritize urself...in whatever method

lordshuk · Answer

It's not about trust i believe , i think it's more about relying.And you simply can't rely on a person who is doing things without thinking about the outcome. You never know how the things will affect, but I can say that you can't expect a positive outcome!

numbnachos25 · Answer

You should let them know that it is affecting you... if still the same happens LET THEM GO .

T · Answer

yeah if a person truly adores u.... atleast they try not to do that again..if they do it intentionally then I don't think that's right..... cause i agree sometimes we can't change ourselves instantly but we could atleast try and apologise when we repeat it unintentionally......

i am an immature person so don't judge me i am mental patient

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