My bf hit me, when I wanted him to stay longer, my forehead is swollen, it hurts.

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boastfulshads7 · Answer

leave him sis, he's abusing you physically

sugaryweaver0 · Answer

leave him and file a complaint if possible

needyocelot1 · Answer

I'm so sorry that happened, I'm not really helpful so i can't really say a lot :(

cynicalpear2 · Answer

he behaves as if he loves me, but when I asked him to stay but longer, he started hitting me, terribly, on road.

cynicalpear2 · Answer

we have been in this relationship for 5 years, in this Feb, 5 yrs will be completed, i am so dependent on him, it hurts thinking he will not be with me.

madcardinal6 · Answer

first of all how dare he. and why did you not hit him back. I would have kicked him in the balls if it was me. girl leave him. you must be in love with him deeply but he's not worth it.

cynicalpear2 · Answer

i know he is not worth it, but after a while I always forgive him, he comes back apologizing and i melt, i forgive me.

cynicalpear2 · Answer

whenever he hits me or we are in a fight, he says it's your fault we drank, it's your fault that we fight, that's y I never want to drink with you

madcardinal6 · Answer

believe me i totally understand. but do you really want to live your life getting physically abused by someone who claims to love you? He will come back because he knows you will get back with him. just take the power in your hand once.

sugaryweaver0 · Answer

yes I agree forgiving him will make it worse

cynicalpear2 · Answer

it has happened multiple times, he blames every fucking thing on me, he hit me with his fist and went home, without looking once in my direction.

madcardinal6 · Answer

WHY ARE YOU EVEN TOLERATING THIS? YOU FR SHOULD JUST BREAKUP

madcardinal6 · Answer

I know you are scared to be alone that you will not anyone by your side but do you have anyone rn? his presence is useless. trust me you'll not regret leaving him. and i can't be with you irl but i promise I will always be here to support you

cynicalpear2 · Answer

I don't know, i just love him, so i try to find reasons for his actions, maybe i was wrong, maybe i pushed him to do so

cynicalpear2 · Answer

Thank you soo much, i will leave this fucking peice of shit.

madcardinal6 · Answer

yes please. and i will be there for you if you ever need to talk okay. and if you ever get the impulse of taking him back just think that why were you trying to be free at the first place.

lovesickporpoise2 · Answer

how are feeling u now ?

cynicalpear2 · Answer

yes sure, he started apologizing in the morning, but whenever I see my face, i realize, i don't want it.

cynicalpear2 · Answer

it's all soo fucked up, i don't know what to expect right now.

cautiousvenison6 · Answer

no body has the right to treat u

i am an immature person so don't judge me i am mental patient

Frustrating

help me please

how do I change for the better?