do u have problems in ur family ?? like mom nd dad
shivang
don't think like that, have senseable talk with someone
yellowsmol
is there a reason you have these thoughts?
rudrani
I m 25 and married... my marriage was love come arrange. In my college tym we were in long distance relationship. He is in A1 class govt service and he put conditions on me tht I should not join in tht respective service in which he is serving. he detach me from my college and friend after marriage and as trying to make him happy I did so. He start abusing me physically and mentally. Though I was emotionally involve , I forgive him whenever he say sorry after hitting me badly. he changed 360 degree after marriage. now since we are completing 3 yrs I m feeling he has some personality problem. even he himself attempted suicide and gave officials were the reason. but I m totally.... He always make me feel that I m the culprit whatever he did and do with me.
Idontknow30
just try to be strong and take one day at a time. If it's abusive you should take the support of your parents . It's no point to be in a relationship in which only one is trying . Stay strong
lonelyrabbit05
Dear rudrani, you need to stay strong for yourself. I know it's easy to say than actually doing it, but you have to try. Try to have one serious discussion with him and both of your families. His actions are not your fault, so don't blame yourself.
gloomyeagle6
i can understand this. i feel you should have proper communication with him and make a decision for yourself. ask yourself if you want to be here? if you want to be in such a relationship? most importantly do you love him and he loves you back? if you get those answers I'm sure you will be able to decide for yourself.
rudrani
he always run away from talks and leave in mid way. now I feel I m emotionally stuck and don't knw how to come out of this emotional trauma. now he is just simply telling me that u decide and whatever u decide I will do without any conversation. It seems it's so easy for him. now I m feeling why I left everything which was in my hand and all those stuff.... why I bear all those things..... how I detach myself, nothing is working.. I m into emotionally "daldal"!!!
