My best friend had called everyone to his home to celebrate eid except me... It hurts me

Question

introvertabhi · Answer

have yoy tried to ask him/her why they have not invited you?

Bliss1418 · Answer

No I haven't... i feel neglected by him

introvertabhi · Answer

but, just try messaging once..without keeping any assumptions.. misunderstandings become ms biggest reason for conflicts..

Bliss1418 · Answer

for the past few days he is not replying to my messages.. even though he is online

introvertabhi · Answer

ohk buddy, tell me what exactly happened before he stopped replying..any conflicts?

Bliss1418 · Answer

No not at all.. Suddenly there is a change in his behavior... Idk the reason behind it.. because neither we fight nor any conflicts between us

introvertabhi · Answer

ohk.. something must be going on his head.. are u girl? and is he ur best friend or there is something more than that?

Bliss1418 · Answer

yes I am a girl... No nothing much just friendship

introvertabhi · Answer

see i feel there could few reasons                                          1. he might be going into relationship with someone..so he wants to keep distance from u.. so that nobody see him with doubtfull eyes..                                           2. he might be experimenting something with u.. like..he may want to see that do u crave for him or not..if he stops talking with u..

Bliss1418 · Answer

But these things hurts me a lot...

introvertabhi · Answer

dear..i understand..losing a friend hurts.. u can cry and vent out all ur emotions.. see.. he might be doing this under pressure of someone, or his family .. but after sometime he will reply and clarify the issues.. just keep a small hope that it will happen.. try to involve urself in some activities..

Bliss1418 · Answer

i just can't focus on my work.. even though I am trying thousands of times...it just painful to see him hanging out with others n chatting with them all day

introvertabhi · Answer

hmm i see.. just start taking small steps.. keep some distance from him for some days.. avoid looking at his social media posts,stories, ... he might be as hurted as u for doing this with u .. but he might forced to do this.. so don't keep so many assumptions until you don't know exact reason

introvertabhi · Answer

spend some time with ur other close friends,  ur family.. try ur favorite hobbie for some time.. go on a trip with someone.. write down all ur negative emotions on a paper.. spend 30 min everyday in a meditation.. search ho'oponopono.. its specifically for healing negative emotions.

Bliss1418 · Answer

I m an introvert so its very difficult for me to chill with other people.Also I don't have any friend other than him.He used to be my one and only friend

Bliss1418 · Answer

thank you so much... I will work on it... thanks for the suggestions

introvertabhi · Answer

i am too introvert..and i feel very bad when i hv no one to talk with.. but I found this type of apps so much useful.. everyday i am getting someone to talk with.. i am too going through depression..but while helping others i forgetting all my problems..

Bliss1418 · Answer

yeah it feels very bad when u have no one with you.Depression anxiety have become like a permanent thing in my life.. everybody leaves but they dont

introvertabhi · Answer

ah..there r few apps that i found recently.. Hear me, jumping minds,.. and ya hv some anonymous ids on social medias...so many people are going through the same issues..there is even telegram grp someone from here created we discuss our problems there.. feel free to reach out to me at any time on @artinception.ab

Bliss1418 · Answer

thank you so much... will definitely do that

i am an immature person so don't judge me i am mental patient

Frustrating

help me please

how do I change for the better?