my boyfriend told me that I don't respect him. and he says I am always complaining, I give him stress. so I found him walking with this girl then I asked him who is she and why is he walking with him he told me is just a person who works with him but I still followed the girl and asked her the same question she told me they're just friends and my boyfriend got angry for confrunting the girl he said I'm desrespecting him. so he decided not to be in a committed relationship with me but I asked him for forgiveness and asked him not to walk with the girl again. Yesterday I saw them walking together again then I went to him I asked him why is he doing it again he said we are not in a committed relationship. so I'm stressed I'm always crying blaming my self don't y what to do.

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my boyfriend told me that I don't respect him. and he says I am always complaining, I give him stress. so I found him walking with this girl then I asked him who is she and why is he walking with him he told me is just a person who works with him but I still followed the girl and asked her the same question she told me they're just friends and my boyfriend got angry for confrunting the girl he said I'm desrespecting him. so he decided not to be in a committed relationship with me but I asked him for forgiveness and asked him not to walk with the girl again.  Yesterday I saw them walking together again then I went to him I asked him why is he doing it again he said we are not in a committed relationship. so I'm stressed I'm always crying blaming my self don't y what to do.

troubledCaribou0 · Answer

you should not blame your self you dint commited a crime in a relationship we sometime get possesive, when we see our bf with some other girl randomly we use to get jealous and in that movement we sometimes overreact , that dosent mean you are disrespecting your bf that just mean that you love him so much that you cant see him with someone elese , but at same time i will say just dont suddenly dout him if you see him with some other girl and dont instruct him to leave her wait for him to tell you about that other girl & just wait and see if your bf himself stop talking to that girl by seeing you geeting upset

troubledCaribou0 · Answer

and dont just bind your bf around you dont beg for forgiveness dont tell him to come to you let him go and do whatever he want to do than he will realise your worth he will come automatically to you if he will miss you ,

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