they are Insecure about themselve and insecurities always ruin relationships, if they can't be with you because they are not good enough let them go because the right one will change themselve if they'll think they are not good enough and stay.
he says it's for my own good bt i know that's not it i know what's goid enough for me he just fear that he will hurt me in some way bt i know that it will not happen it's not that he is not sure about me it's just he think that he will be stopping me in my career and life bt he is always supportive and caring
he loves me too much and i also love him bt i just don't know how to explain this to him that it's not what i want he tried so hard to convince me abot it but i have the right to choose what i want and is good for me
tell him that he is perfectly fine for you make him believe that you love him and can go through things together and if he can't belive or understand any thing let him go that's the only solution.
because the right one will change himself for you if he really love you they don't leave like that
he trust me more than any thing understand that it's hard for me to do so he knows everything bt is scared to lose me or hurt me
then why he thinks he is not good for you ?
he thinks he is holding me back in some way that i won't be able to do what i want in life
he thinks you are spending more time on him instead of your career and because of him you won't be succeed ?
actually it's opposite whenever i say I'm studying he says ok focus on it whenever you need I'm hear
i am not able to give him time bt it's totally fine with him we mainly talk at night and i do study and other work in morning
nope - instead take a diff approach instead of just letting go... assuming u r talking about ur bf/gf...give them space, and support from sidelines. don't think as gf/bf...but as best friend.
it is what it was like for 2 years even though we lost eachother 1 year ago but he again found me after many difficulty somehow it took me time to confess bt he never backed down from his feelings never moved on never left me he was always there even though i never confessed earlier bt now everything is clear between us we know what we want
what he wants to do now I've already done this earlier that's why we drift apart bt i always regret it
I think then u've ur ans.. the fact he found u back and confessed - shows he cares. take ur time, don't rush things.
that's why I don't want to let go
thanks @artist and @skylar for understanding hope u both have a great and happy life ahead
we're all not good enough for someone who's not contented. if you love someone, you will always be enough.. all the flaws and mistakes they will accept it.