see if he doesn't care shit that his family says about you or your father, then u should ignore otherwise take stand and if he agrees with his family then get out of that relationship as soon as possible 🙂

i am too weak to leave everything.

Give time to yourself ❤ and see if this guy really loves you or not. I don't know about your relationship so i can't suggest you anything but if a guy loves you he loves you anyway, ask yourself if he supports you , which is very important in love. If he only point out mistakes and make yourself feel low than you should think about it deeply. Choose one who encourages you, who respects you, who is supportive. Don't feel anxious about looks, no one is forever young there are many ways to win heart , you may be very good at something. see your blessings and if he ever say shit about your father he is not the one.

GrudingSalami4 - We are wonderful creation of God. You are not weak . You are a very strong , you have a loving family. Nature loves you. God loves you ❤ Stay positive.

Hi friend. See what is important here is wheather the boy stands for you or not. Because nobody is perfect in this world. Even he might have some negative things which you have ignored like physic or look or profession or anything.... You ignored that because love him and accepted. It is important to know that what he thinks about you. Does he love you for what you are ??? If he does then you both can sit together and find some solution out but if he doesn't it not good to expect support from him. And above all be a strong girl. Do not become week if his family criticized you for your look, be happy and strong that you got know their real face in early stages. Tell them they have ugly heart and mind. Heart and mind can be changed but face can not be. I will pray that you see the right path. All the best.

You are a beautiful creation of God, we all are. No matter what anyone says, don't get affected by the opinion of others-feel happy about yourself by doing things that make you happy, what they say about you is only a reflection of their minds. Beauty is only skin deep!

Hello, currently they are not respecting you neither your father. I have seen in situations like these they demand heavy dowry like shameless people.. Moreover all your life you have to listen to their taunts that you're unlucky because of you this has happened. Nobody will praise you not will give you an inch of respect. So it's better to cut of everything right here right now. Just block him from everywhere. Even if he tries to dominate you tell him I am gonna call Women's helpline. This is not a relationship that you're in. This slow murder process where you're letting them to kill you slowly. Please leave him at once.

This boyfriend is not the right to for you. Drop him like a hot brick. Part ways with him. Have nothing to do with him from now on. Have faith in yourself. You have not been created in vain. You will find Mr. Right sooner or later.

leave! where you're not celebrated.. even if you marry those stupid people, they will not let you live in peace! Leave the place! Accept who you are! Take pride in who you are! Fall in love with yourself first.. and then.. you will find someone worth spending life with..trust the universe.. WHAT'S YOURS WILL FIND YOU. believe.. fight! god bless

I have been married for 21 years and my in laws don't like me my mother in law offered me money to divorce my husband I told her to go kick rocks but over all those years I've learned if his family doesn't respect neither will he you need to let him go or you'll just end up making yourself sick over rall the stress and anxiety

Must be very difficult time for you and I believe you need to take stand for yourself , be assertive and firm that is is not acceptable, somewhere they are saying you all this because allowed them, create your boundaries. Also after marriage your husband realised that you need to be fairer, if that was the case he should have found somebody fair and he has no right to say things about your father and your clour. Know that you are perfect and be firm and tell that what is acceptable and what is not.