he is always there for me and gives me lots of love.. it's just that i feel insecure and want to get over this insecure feeling of not being like the girls he follows
happyguy12
its not an issue joop, he is with you because he loves u irrespective of ur body type and even if u r feeling insecure, he will talk to u without getting hurt
happyguy12
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communication is the only way to a good relationship
joop
I know..i am so worried if i bring this up, i will hurt him.
joop
sometime i feel like it's better if i keep things myself rather than hurting him
happyguy12
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its ok, its normal to feel insecured at times and if u talk about this to ur bf , he wont be hurt and rather he will try to make u understand.
joop
he has done every possible thing for us to be together..and this is the least i can do for him and his happiness
happyguy12
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talking from perosnal experience, i have had same kind of insecurity issues in my relationship, i was unable to talk to her about this bcz this might upset her but instead she made me understand so well that i harsly get insecured nowadays.
joop
I am just sad that i can't satisfy his needs because of my body type..cause i know i am totally the opposite body type of the people who he likes
happyguy12
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see joop , from whatever u r saying about him , he seems to be a really nice guy . Now if u talk to him abt this issue , the problem might get resolved but if u keep this within u and hurt urself , that might be a potential threat to the relationship
joop
i have talked about it once before..and he told me that he loves me alot and is super attracted to me.. but i don't feel good about myself and i am worried it will hurt our relationship in future