one of my ex friend is kind of blackmailing me with a video of me making out with my then bf which broke off pretty fast...I kinda have an introverted person and scores really well vibes around college....what if the video goes out? waht will I do if people see me just as a whore for making out with a guy? what if my own friends judge me for it? and my ex mot the one mentioned above had told me that he'd be there if something like this would happen and now I actually told it to him and he just laughed it off! what do I do? talk to the ex friend? or......?