hey. first of all, may your mom have speedy recovery and good health soon.
i totally get you sometimes our parents get cranky and for the things we do for them, they feel like thats our duty and stop being appreciative enough
I know we all want to be appreciated but thier are certain situations where we need to keep ourself completely out of the picture and we just need to do what are we supposed to. In your case, taking care of your mom is your responsibility and you are doing it already. Just don't lose hopes, stay patient, do t expect anything, everything will be fine.
but you have to be appreciative of your ownself always. tell yourself that yayy, you done that.. take baby steps and you'll seek no validation and just happiness
for real yeah I feel so hurt but I won't ever leave her side
I jus need time for myself
that's really nice nioka, you and your mom will be perfectly fine soon✌️
thank u guys so much
take your time and start appreciating yourself
that's perfectly fine!
yes I really do
u know what I have gone through a very similar situation..my mom had brain tumor and due to after effects of medicine she had started suffering from lots of problems..she can't walk or eat anything... so this is kind of very devastating to me...I have to do a lot of work suddenly..I have to study , do household chores and serve her too...but despite all that my mother tells me hurtful things like u don't do anything..u are not a responsible person or whatever...I was really hurt that time bcoz I was the one who was suffering physical and mental pain and she completely denied everything that I am doing for her and my family...I have really this thought that why is she not understanding me or why is she not observing or praising my work or situation. I cried ..I really cried a lot...but u know what I later realised that it's not her fault...it's actually that she wanted me to be strong...her medicine is just so high that she can't understand those things...when someone is in physical pain or under high dose...they started blurting anything...it doesn't mean that she doesn't love you...she just can't say the correct things in correct order...she is in pain bro...so try to understand her... nothing can compare the love of your mother.... although she sometimes tell you hurtful things but it's not her true intention...love her..love her alot despite any situation do that u don't regret it later...do your best... don't expect anything just do your work.. believe me it will gonna work...u will surely get reward.... don't regret your action and thoughts later ...so do your best..
I pray for your Mom, hope she get well soon, have faith in almighty God.
I love my mom very much it's alot at times but I place everything in God's hands
everything will be ok, dont worry
your being a good child to her and be the same way. The treatment is painful and it takes a lot. just support her and I am sure everything will be fine