Okay this is a story close to myself so much that I don't even know if i should share, but ... here i go. so i had a complicated boyfriend two years ago. we dated for an year before he left me for my sister (cousin) and uh he kind of , like, was a hacker? yeah it sounds made up but hear me out. so he made my sister be with him or he threatened to tell everything to our parents (which will kill us if they know we date). so she agreed. at first i thought okay, not her fault at all but then she told me she LOVED him now. i don't know how she could love him if she hated him for hurting me (he also disrespected me a lot when we broke up). then that went on for a year. she casually shared details with me while it killed me to hear about it. i still loved him even after what he did and tbh i still do. idk where he is now. he left and there's no way to contact him. idk who to say this to. what should i do?