i am on leave and my head is calling me on phone.. which is giving me anxiety 😔😔😔
arjun0813
first of all take deep breaths
Drhouse
i am not recving phone 😫
Drhouse
its giving me stress
arjun0813
did something happen at the office ?
cockylizard3
@drhouse.. you want to talk about something particular?
Drhouse
and that thougth is continuously going on in my mimd and giving me anxiety.. " why is he calling" " why is he calling"
mellowbaboon4
please take Deep breaths ... just go for a ride or into nature
Drhouse
liz.. i am already talking abt thia particalr call thing
Drhouse
arjun.. i dont knoq.. nothing happened in my presence
mellowbaboon4
I think you should talk to someone who knows your condition in person like a person from work etc
arjun0813
Maybe just maybe you are overthinking? i mean it can be a simple work that he or she wants to discuss so maybe you can pick up the call?
Recovering_babe
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you're on leave, it's okay not to pick up the call DrHouse. Just call back in the evening and ask with genuine concern as to what was the purpose of the call..
Drhouse
i have no person or wellwosher at work.. they are all politics playing ppl
mellowbaboon4
okay... I wish I was there as a friend to make you some tea and cool you down but since there's no one can you please do it yourself please make yourself a tea
Recovering_babe
start make good relations with your boss instead!!
Drhouse
i cant butter.. plys he doeant care about othera.. we are slaves for him
arjun i dont wana call.. i just wana stay away 😒
arjun0813
It's not about buttering, it's just you need to maintain good relationship with him...small small things can make a huge difference...and tbh sometimes it's important to survive in a corporate to be on the boss' side
Recovering_babe
you don't have to butter the boss to make good relationship with him. your results and your work will speak for ya! just give him a call later today and ask what was the issue.. is there some work I need to get done etc
Drhouse
like what ???
Recovering_babe
like I just told you... about his call that you'll be so sorry you missed!
Recovering_babe
meaning say to him that you're sorry you missed his call
arjun0813
You are on a leave and he knows about this right? so just forget about his call and forget about the work for sometime and call him at night and show that you were thinking about the work only in your leave too but for now leave him or her be...you took a leave so don't let tht call distract you
