me and a guy were making out casually without any strings. Eventually I started developing feelings. I am sure he did too. I told I love him but I didn't expect an answer. suddenly now he wants to stop all of this, he doesn't want a relationship too. he just wants to be friends. and needs a break for 1 month

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excitedTomatoe7 · Answer

I understand how it feels. How about you give him some time? Who knows what's on his mind? Don't stress yourself out and give him some time to think about it. In the meanwhile, try focusing on other stuff that helps you distract for the better 😊

bhavna99 · Answer

That's what I can do.. He also is stressed about his debt for 47 lakhs and said he needs to handle that situation first. but I am thinking how is that connected to this??? I am sure he loves me. but he doesn't want a relationship. I feel pathetic

MDP · Answer

So his debt is on top of  his priority list. May be he thinks he's not in a situation to develop relationship unless his debt is paid off. You may talk to him for one last time that what stops him and tell him you can wait till his problem is resolved ( if you really think you can ). In this way you both can open up about your thinkings. After which you can decide you should stick to him or not. All the best.

bhavna99 · Answer

yes we did talk. That's why he said he needs a month break from this to figure this out

excitedTomatoe7 · Answer

Well then maybe he isn't ready for a commitment yet. Like I said, don't stress yourself out. Give him some time to figure things out. You be neutral, don't keep your hopes too high. Whatever his decision, you'll be just fine :)

bhavna99 · Answer

thank you so much

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