break up because of mother

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Hii sir/mam I am loving a boy who loves me too he broke up because he told his mother that he is in love with a girl and she went on cutting her hand it seems and he also said I wish to come back but I made promise on my mother that I won't do love marriage after that problem I love u still and I need u but the thing is he is not strong enough he s asking me to text daily we are talking daily he asked me to talk with him daily I don't know what to do to make him strong in our relationship and come back please help me please

Mithra

2 Answers
hansa_shaunik
It seems like your partner has a very complicated relationship with his mother. Using self harm as a technique to make people do what we want is a manipulative act. The desire to protect him from such a manipulation must be as important to you as is the desire to be with him. With that said, I feel that helping him on your own may not be effective. Given the kind of family dynamics that he has, it may be better to seek professional help. Seek a therapist for this.
Mithra
I really don't know what to do can u plz help me I am juz worrying a lot its already a month after break up I really want him back please help me I am really confused I don't know how to make him strong in our love and come back so that he should not make decision of breaking up plz I really need him plz help me

i am an immature person so don't judge me i am mental patient

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troubledtuna7

i am an immature person so don't judge me i am mental patient

Frustrating

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