Of course lovely I'm here to listen what's wrong talk to me
troubledWhiting3
my marriage life
troubledWhiting3
actually my husband drink alcohol on daily basis ...
Sudeshna
what happened dear?
alessicutie
whats going on with it
troubledWhiting3
nd there is so much fighting in my house
Sudeshna
same here. my husband is doing the same since 2016
troubledWhiting3
I can't tolerate all this what should I do please suggest me
troubledWhiting3
I can't sleep all night
troubledWhiting3
nd just few days my abortion is done
troubledWhiting3
hii sudeshna what u do
troubledWhiting3
I tried all possible way to do better every thing
alessicutie
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At this point I'm sure you've tried talking to him and maybe it didn't work after and to be honest I don't know much about marriage but compromise is an important thing in a relationship and if he can't do so maybe it's time to move on. I don't know where you come from and honestly it maybe a sort of influence for your decision but what's best to do now is for you and your piece of mind. its not worth tolerating behaviors you find disturbing just because of a marriage that will permanently damage you
Sudeshna
we used to have fight regarding this. Now I just accepted it. it may sound odd. if you really want stay with him, if possible take advise from councillors or just accept this face that he is an alcoholic. But, if he is a abuser if possible leave the house for atleast 5days. it will help you to think over your relationship.
troubledWhiting3
no he don't abuse me but he drink daily nd I can't tolerate it ...nd I felt to do suiside
Sudeshna
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I can understand your pain. I used to feel the same way. I just shifted my focus from him. Insecuroty was the main reason behind this anxiety in my case.First, secured him with a good amount of Mediclaim in and term insurance. it really sound odd. But, it will give you a bit peace. Then involve yourself in any activity. enjoy the time with him when he is not drunk. Give him a space when he could enjoy his glass. Don't involve yourself in any argument (good or bad) when he is drunk. Ask help from his friends and family to give him advise. Don't irritate yourself. He is not the leader of your life. He is a part. He has a bad habit. you may also have one or two. He is also coping with that. Life is very unpredictable, so enjoy every bit.
troubledWhiting3
thanks for advise me
usernametaken
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