Communication gap in relationship

Stress

Anxiety

Relationship Issues

Long distance relationship and a selfish boyfriend problem. He calls me and doesn't pay his full attention- that's irritating because he called me in the first place. Another thing He does alot in front of his family members is just get really wierd and talk about something random or most of the times he asks me to wait or hold on until he talks to them. This really is irritating because this has happened a lot and frustrates me because I don't do the same. Next when we do have a fight or a misunderstanding- when I get super irritated and tell him I'm sad - he will stop picking up my calls. Cause there have been times when I did scream previously because of him not picking up my calls especially when I'm feeling so low and irritated because of the whole thing. I hate that he doesn't pick up my calls then- that makes it even worse and just everything he does. This really effects me a lot and stresses me out.

toothless

4 Answers

S_air

I think you both should talk about this issue and make sure that it doesn’t turn into an argument

ferventFlamingo1

Please calm down, I can understand you , you don't get anger, handle this calmly, tell him everything how you feel ,tell him calmly that it affects you lot , but also remember you are wonderful , you don't need others attention

UselessAllotrope

I have gone through that best is to move on to next relationship. In long term, it has no future to be honest. One partner just dissatisfied.

excitedTomatoe7

Ask yourself if all this is worth it. Do you think you have a future together? One last resort would be to talk to him. But if things don't change, I agree with the above comment. You need to move on. Although, not onto the next relationship. Focus on yourself, instead. There's much more to life than just relationships. Talk to him and take a decision for yourself

i am an immature person so don't judge me i am mental patient

hello

Frustrating

help me please