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i need some suggestions, i have a bf, he is a good person as far as i know, but the only problem that i feel is in small small things he starts to shout at me, when i ask him not to shout at me, i do the same to him, i dnt think i shout like he shouts, just because he is soo short tempered i cannot think my future with him, please help what should i do

ashamedOryx0 · Answer

i am sry the pple who are short tempered are red flagg i feel like you r better off without him and u don't deserve any of this 💅💅💅

felicity · Answer

i dnt know how to get out of this relationship, it has been so long that i am with him, he promises to change but then again if we have some agruements he starts to shout at me

ashamedOryx0 · Answer

r u living together ??

ashamedOryx0 · Answer

you can just msg him if it's hard or just TALK you should TALK IT OUT IF ITZ UNBEARABLE and say u want to break and and after that u should focus on urself and have some self time !!!

felicity · Answer

yes v r living together

ashamedOryx0 · Answer

omggg

ashamedOryx0 · Answer

you are ?

ashamedOryx0 · Answer

so i think you should talk it out and speak to him about how you feel and if you feel he is trying his best to change then you should give him time if not I think you should first move out ?

ashamedOryx0 · Answer

do you have a plan b ? if ur moving out

felicity · Answer

yeah i need to make a plan b, i cannot stay like this

ashamedOryx0 · Answer

yeah so maybe move in with your parents

ashamedOryx0 · Answer

or u can get a small safe apartment

ashamedOryx0 · Answer

or move in with one of ur frnd

felicity · Answer

no i cannot move in with my parents, god! its so hard to break up

felicity · Answer

well i do have a job, and a separate room too, i just live wd him and go to my room to attend office calls

felicity · Answer

sometimes i feel he is the one, but when he loses his tempered why he is like this, my father is also like this, i feel all men are like this

needfulTruffle5 · Answer

whats your partner and your age?

i am an immature person so don't judge me i am mental patient

Frustrating

help me please

how do I change for the better?