Confused!

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Confused!  I hv so many questions inside me. I know the answer very well. But I want to know the answer what does he think about it? But I am afraid to ask him. He will make fun of me or will pass the question and never answer or After that he will stop talking to me? I want to know truth. Now the situation is not in our hand but I have right to know truth. How to make him to say truth only whether it is good or bad for.. anything..... nothing but truth..

butterflyfrommoth · Answer

dear, but what is the question

therealme · Answer

we are not in a relationship. but we were long distance....I want to know whether he really loved me or not

butterflyfrommoth · Answer

if u know the answer , that means u don wanna ask, coz u don wanna hurt urself..

therealme · Answer

true..I dnt wanna hurt myself but at the same time I want to know....i hv been avoiding this question for last 5 yrs

butterflyfrommoth · Answer

i think it's a valid question, but ask only if you are okay with any of the consequences...if he loved, he would come.. if he didn't he might leave .. and you shd be ready to let go..before you ask him dear..

therealme · Answer

how to make him answer directly...I dnt want any diplomatic answer..

therealme · Answer

I am ready to let him go..100% .dnt I hv right to know the truth?  If he had loved me or still love me...then?

butterflyfrommoth · Answer

dear , you definitely have all the rights to ask.. if you are holding it back for past 5 years.  Make him sit , and say it's a serious thing for you and also say how sensitive it is for you to open up and just tell him how you feel . and be ready for whatever he has to say . if the answer is yes , then Great . if and is no..be ready to walk away.. and that's the right thing to do...it will also make him feel u are not clingy..

therealme · Answer

thank u for your support

therealme · Answer

I really don't want to ask him directly... I want him to confess by all himself ...how to make him to do this? that's my biggest question....

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