Consequences of being physically abandoned by mother and mother emotionally abandoned by father 😔

Question

I've lost all my friends and am not close to most family. now I have a bf but I rely heavily on him so I'm not lonely. We've been together for a year. I have a crippling fear that he will also leave me. I have severe separation anxiety when he needs to go away and I worry constantly that he'll leave me.

cockylizard3 · Answer

heya

cockylizard3 · Answer

hoe are you feeling now

cockylizard3 · Answer

how*

Gen28 · Answer

hey, I'm a little anxious. I'm so sacred I'll lose him. he's been one of best things that has ever happened to me 😟

cockylizard3 · Answer

but why are you feeling anxious

someone_u_kw · Answer

i can understand that but when u are clinging to someone so hard , it'll suffocate them. So jst make sure u guys are having personal life apart from ur relationship. I know its not easy but try making new friends,  try to enjoy ur time alone. Trust me u are gona be jst fine on ur own. U both should rely on each other in a healthy way. wish u a great life ahead:)

Gen28 · Answer

thanks for your great advice ☺️ It is quite hard, but I should try to get some form of life apart from our relationship.

i am an immature person so don't judge me i am mental patient

Frustrating

help me please

how do I change for the better?