I have stress and anxiety. My spouse is abusive and bi polar. He does not make money. He is not getting a job and is bent on doing business. He is extremely abusive verbally and destructive.. He is angry and frustrated all the time. He has made me take loans and living on my income. I am affected and strained mentally and physically.... I feel he is mentally sick and was on drugs and had a violent childhood..... He can't fulfill family money and other responsibilities. I also feel he had an emotional relationship outside the marriage.... has high ego, and over sensitive. Lately he has been depressed too. I am also not getting promoted or an increase in my salary to meet ends and pay debts.. I over work